Some people find it easier to hate than to do anything else. They find it easier to hate than to learn something new without fighting, to see something from another person’s point of view, and easier to hate than to control themselves. For some, hate is too easy! If they don’t understand something or someone, they can hate it instead of learning. If they don’t know how to be kind, or to reach into their own understanding of themselves to understand the other person, they can hate. If they are too tired, or too angry, or too sad, or just too lazy to care about what they do to others, some people always seem to use hate. Because when you hate someone, you can blame them, and you don’t ever have to look at where you might have to blame yourself for why things aren’t working in your life.
Yes, hate seems easy. But it’s really lazy and stupid.